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Deborah Drapper

Deborah Drapper is 13 years old. She is a bright, intelligent girl. She is also an evangelical Christian.
 
BBC Three has made a one hour documentary about her (and her family of 10 brothers and sisters and her parents). It was truly cringeworthy stuff. Partly because of the cruel nonsense that she believes without question, but also because of the shallow nature of the documentary. The idiotic questions posed by the documentary makers ("do you know who Britney Spears is?") and the posing of the binge culture lifestyle as the only alternative to Christianity are simplistic and a lost opportunity.
 
And I don’t think that I’m the only person to note that her eldest brother, Matthew, set off the gaydar alarm.  I kept hearing the tune and lyrics of ""There may be trouble ahead, but while there’s music and moonlight and love and romance, let’s face the music and dance".  
 
The final few moments of the film show a vulnerable, bright 13 year old who has been completely screwed over by her upbringing. Heartbreaking.  
 
Deborah has a web blog. Hopefully she will win through and come to realise that she is not a "wretched horrible person", just human, like the rest of us.

6 responses to “Deborah Drapper”

  1. Caz Avatar
    Caz

    That’s exactly what I thought, she’s so young…It was totally wrong of her parents to indoctrinate her in that way. As for her brother…now that I think about it he did seem pretty feminine…I wonder what he’ll do when he finally realises that he’s gay…

  2. Geoff Avatar
    Geoff

    Caz, as I say, "there may be trouble ahead…" If Matthew is gay, then I doubt whether his father will be too pleased about it…

  3. XxleannexX Avatar
    XxleannexX

    leave debbie alone she has the rites to believe in whatever she wants to. If she feels that the way of life she is following is right for her then let her live that way she has not told you how to live your life so mdont comment on her

  4. Geoff Avatar
    Geoff

    XxleannexX adderley – sorry, but I will absolutely comment on aspects of this society and world that I find interesting/wonderful/exasperating/wicked. I did, however, enjoy your Freudian slip about "she has the rites to believe in whatever she wants to". Rites can be constraining like chains. Rights can liberate us.

  5. Luis Avatar
    Luis

    Deborah Drapper and her family is an example of what should be the new generation of young people, it is an awakenning call to all who having eyes want to see and having ears want to hear, and with a heart of good will be reborn in spirit and water, water that springs to eternal life.
    May God bless the family Drapper, the people of good will in the UK and the world. Amen.

  6. Michael Avatar
    Michael

    Matthew is a delightful young man, and certainly set off my gaydar. If I am correct, I pray he will be able to integrate his spirituality and his sexuality. Deborah is thoughtful, but it’s too bad she is so self-hating and obsessed with judgment. That is the spirit of the Pharisees, not the Spirit of Christ, who came not to condemn, but to save the world.

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