Reflections on life at “De Witte Wand”…

  • MSN Spaces

    What is it about MSN Spaces? I have yet to find anyone out there who is even approaching my age. The vast majority seem to be students who are less than 20. And looking at what they blog about, I fear for the future of the human race. Victor Meldrew lives!

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      K

      Oh tell me about it – I’m ‘only’ 32 and feel like an old git here. And why are all these 15 year olds so bored all the time? And if they’re not bored, they’re going to the Green Day concert – surely not the same concert?

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      Geoff

      Hi, Katie,32? – You’re a mere slip of a thing compared to an old fogie like me 🙂 I get the impression that the youth of today (isn’t that a wonderful expression? – and here am I now saying it, when in my mind I still think I’m 25) have grown up in a society where everything has to be reduced to a 3 minute attention span. Coincidentally, I’m writing this while watching the Culture Show on BBC2, where Paul Morley has just asked Michael Stipe whether (in effect) he thinks that, at his age, he should still be doing rock and roll for a youth audience. Stipe looked non-plussed, as well he should have done.

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  • Diaghilev Festival

    Martin and I went to Groningen (north Holland) last weekend to go to the Diaghilev Festival – saw the Joffrey Ballet and the Kirov Ballet. The productions were all recreations, as far as possible of the original Ballet Russe performances. L’Apres Midi du’un Faune was wonderful to see – the Nijinsky choreography was influenced by Egyptian friezes, and the movements were highly stylized and as two-dimensional as possible. The Kirov did L’Oiseau du Feu – which was spectacular to see, but it was like a pantomime – I half expected the audience to boo the evil wizard and cheer the firebird.

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  • Dining Out

    Went to Deksels in The Hague to have dinner with an ex-colleague. Deksels is currently my favourite restaurant in The Hague (I’ve been going there for at least a year). Fusion cuisine. I see that it has now made an entry into Lekker (the Dutch restaurant guide). This will doubtless bring pressure on it to maintain standards in the face of a noticeable increase in popularity. I hope that Deksels is up to the challenge.

    During the meal another six of my ex-colleagues came in to a separate table – I’d taken some of them there when I still worked in Shell. The nice thing was that they were all pleased to see me! 

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  • In Memoriam

    Olive Josephine Coupe (née Johnson): 12 June 1904 – 7 June 2001
    Percy Coupe: 23 July 1903 – 9 October 1989.

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    A picture of my mother and father, taken in Ramsey on the Isle of Man, in 1978.

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  • The Gay Games: 1998

    The first week in August 1998 saw the holding of the fifth Gay Games. And, for the first time, the Gay Games was held outside of North America. This time, Amsterdam was its home for one remarkable week, even by the standards of this city.

    The first Gay Games was an initiative taken by the late Dr.Tom Waddell, participant in the Olympic Games in Mexico. From the first Games, which attracted 1,300 participants, the scale and popularity has steadily grown. Amsterdam had 14,299 participants and 250,000 spectators – one of the largest sporting and cultural events in the world.

    Amsterdam Canal Parade

    The day of the official opening of the Games coincided with Amsterdam’s third annual Gay Canal Parade, where carnival floats literally do just that.

    Canal Parade - Games Boat

    This was the official boat for the Gay Games. The two rainbow towers went up and down, and raised and lowered the yellow flag of the Games. In the background you can see the Amsterdam Opera House – the Stopera. This, and the area around it, became Friendship Village for the week of the Games.

    Canal Parade - GayLM Boat

    Royal Dutch Airlines – KLM – was a major sponsor of the Gay Games, so what more justification was required for GayLM – the “Legs in the Air Line”. And, of course, there were passing royal visitors…

    Canal Parade - Royalty

    Ancient and Modern…

    Canal Parade - Ancient and Modern

    And just to prove that we shouldn’t take anything for granted in August, it rained for part of the time…

    Canal Parade - August Weather

    Opening Ceremony

    The opening ceremony of the Games was held at the Amsterdam ArenA. The entry of the participants (all 14,299 of them!) was both joyful and stirring, every last one of them being cheered and clapped by some 30,000 spectators. What was also striking was the number of countries represented by the participants – from Afghanistan to Zimbabwe. Sobering to realise also that in many of these countries, gays and lesbians are persecuted – up to and including capital punishment.

    Opening Ceremony

    There’s been quite a lot of discussion over why we should have a “Gay Games” – some have said that it is separatism, when we are simultaneously seeking integration with society at large. While I can see some small justification for this view, to my mind it is swept away by the fact that we should celebrate our diversity, particularly in the light of the continuing existence of prejudice and persecution. The positive feelings that the opening ceremony ignited in the hearts and souls of those of us present are sparks that I’m sure we will carry back to our respective communities. As Harvey Fierstein said, to ringing cheers, “We are not different, we are extraordinary!” His speech that night was truly magnificent – reminding us that the journeys that we made by train, boat and plane to get to Amsterdam were short in comparison with the journeys in our souls to reach this place. “We were carried here on the backs of the millions of gays and lesbians that went before us… some of whom paid for the struggle against prejudice with their very lifeblood.”

    I was impressed too by the speeches (at both the opening and closing ceremonies) made by Schelto Patijn, the Mayor of Amsterdam at the time. He epitomised the strong support given by the wider community of Amsterdam for this event. He rightly deserved the applause he received on both occasions.

    And then there was the music and dancing… The 200 sailors stripping to the Weather Girls “It’s Raining Men”; Dana International, Mathilde Santing (now apparently christened as “the Dutch Diva”).

    The Competitions

    A friend of ours, Jim Atkinson, was taking part in the weightlifting competition at the Gay Games. On Sunday, 2nd August, I went along to watch some of the competition, and give moral support…

    Weightlifting medals

    Jim with Chris Morgan on the right. The end result – Silver and Bronze medals! Well done, Jim! You can see the results for all the sports at the Gay Games web site here.

    Closing

    The participants once again marched into the ArenA, this time with their medals and memories…

    Closing Ceremony

    The Scottish contingent proving that traditionally, nothing is worn beneath a kilt (it is all in perfect working order)…

    Scottish Contingent

    Closing Thanks

    You can visit the official Gay Games Federation web site by clicking here.

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